Monday, July 19, 2010

10 Ways To Spark Up Your Relationship!

10 Ways To Spark Up Your Relationship!

1)- HAVE FUN PLAY GAMES: Along with the pressures and routines of everyday life, things may get a little serious. So if you think sex has become a chore like any other that needs to be performed, then find ways to have fun, play games, or tell a naughty joke. Something that will make you both laugh, even when you are in bed. Try playing a sexy game like Strip Poker, this is one game, you CANT lose at!

2)- BE INNOVATIVE: If your bored with the turn your sex life has taken, its time for a change. Its probably about time you looked at things and tryed something new, If your used to doing it with the lights off, try diffused lighting, or infront of the fire, or having the room only lit by candles. The shadows have an erotic sexy feel and will spice things up. If you think it may just be you, try reading sex magazines or learning a few new tricks! Practice makes perfect!

3)- VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE: If you partner is the kind of person that likes kinky sex, try sex toys, (dont let it get to the point of you being uncomfortable). Maybe trying waking up early and luring your spouse into a hot steamy shower. If sex usually doesnt just HAPPEN, use this to your advantage and put some extra planning into sex. Add roses to the red, bedside wine glasses, or some sexy whipcream.

4) FORGIVE AND MOVE ON: Forgive your partner outloud for a mistake he or she has made. Its fine to explain the impact it just made, but move on and dont let it make things worse. Forgiveness invites empathy into the relationship and helps both realize there human.

5) GIVE LOVE: How does your partner like to receive love...flowers...gifts...touching...kissing. Get to know how your partner likes to receive love. Suppose you used to give your boyfriend or girlfriend gifts in the beginning of the relationship but have come to realize that they enjoy services better. Next times hes away take his car for a tune-up, burn him a CD with his favorite songs or do sumthing sweet, out of the ordinary.

6)- CHEAP DATE IDEAS: Winery----Youd be suprised how many places have these and offer tours for cheap. Get drunk with your date for a very small amount. Wine tasting and holding hands couldnt be more romantic. Get Classy---- Rent bikes or use your own, biking around town couldnt be better for you, or more romantic, when you get have a cool shower. Even better! TOGETHER.

7)- WORK IT OUT: Hiking outdoors, or indoor excercise can work as intimacy equity. Sweating releases pharamones. A great lil hormone that makes you want sex!

8)- HOLD HANDS AND CUDDLE: Scientists prove that even 20 seconds of holding hands or cuddling, can release ocytocin also know as the cuddle horomone. Something that usually releases in woman during there period. But cuddling, kissing and snugglin up in bed can release these great hormones and spark up things in your love life!

9)- GO TO A MUSEUM: intellectual stimulation goes hand in hand with intimacy. Spending time with your loved one outside the bedroom can affect all that goes into the bedroom later.

10)- GO TO A NIGHT CLUB: Some couples wake up and realize they havent gone dancing in 15 years! Doing little things like this can help you realize why you fell in love in the first place!


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